（怀利，城市边界）
（耶稣拯救世人）
（这是一个真实故事）
－坎迪？ －什么事？ - Candy? - Yeah?
我很快就要回去上班了 I'm due back at work soon.
没问题，进来吧 Sure. Come on in.
我想在这种情况下 I think, under the circumstances
上帝不会介意我们一起洗澡 God won't bat an eye at us showering together.
应该不会 Probably not.
－空间够大吗？ －大得很 - Is there enough room? - Oh, yeah, plenty.
－你确定吗？因为我… －没问题的 Are you sure? Because I... No, we're fine. See?
看吧？水压不是很理想，但… It's not the best water pressure, but...
艾伦 Allan.
谢谢你 Thank you.
谢什么？ For what?
就是谢谢你 Just thank you.
（他总是有上好的美酒）
（唱啊）
（普世欢腾）
（所有的男孩女孩）
（带给蔚蓝深海的鱼儿欢乐）
（带给你我欢乐）
（普世欢腾）
（所有的男孩女孩）
（普世欢腾）
（带给你我欢乐）
（普世欢腾）
（所有的男孩女孩）
（带给蔚蓝深海的鱼儿欢乐）
（带给你我欢乐）
我的天啊 Oh, my dear heaven.
一想到这可能是我 听这个唱诗班歌唱的最后一天 The idea that this may be the last day I listen to that choir.
这不会是最后一次，绝对不是 Well.It's not gonna be the last time. Simple as that.
我也许不是你们未来的牧师 I may not be your minister going forward
但我要你们知道 你们会受到妥善的照顾 but I want you all to know that you are in good hands.
接替我的朗恩亚当斯牧师 My replacement, Pastor Ron Adams.
朗恩，请起立 Stand up, Ron.
有他和他太太玛丽在是各位的福气 You will be lucky to have him and his wife, Mary.
玛丽，请起立 Please stand, Mary.
天啊 And, my God
有各位教友也是他们莫大的福气 they will be oh so lucky to have all of you.
他会是个大灾难 He's gonna be a disaster.
－我们得给他一个机会，贝蒂 We have to give him a chance, Betty.
－看看他 Look at him.
看看他 Look at him.
谁会穿橘色外套上教堂 或是去任何地方？ Who wears an orange coat to church? - Or to anywhere?
亲爱的 Honey, hey.
我们要接受他的精神指导？ We're to take spiritual guidance from him?
－而且我们对贾姬的忠诚呢？ －贝蒂，她没有被开除 Plus, where's our loyalty to Jackie? Betty. She wasn't fired.
对，你一直这么说，唐恩 Yes, you keep saying that, Don.
她为什么会被开除？ Well, why would she have been fired?
因为她离婚了 Because she got a divorce,
对一个牧师来说这是不被允许的 and it isn't acceptable for a minister to do that.
他看起来好古板拘谨 He looks so stiff and rigid.
他看起来像个孩子 He looks like a child.
唱诗班聚在一起时总是让我很紧张 Always makes me nervous when the choir clusters.
贝蒂认为你是因为离婚才被迫离开 Betty thinks you're being forced out on account of your divorce.
一切都太仓促了 Well, it's all been so rush-rush.
而且居然是他来接手？ And we end up with him?
－他只是个穿橘色外套的孩子 －贝蒂 - He's a child. In an orange coat. - Betty.
听我说，你们所有人都听好 You need to listen to me. All of you.
你们必须让这个教会维持下去 You need to make this church work.
我要你们跟这个人好好相处 I want you to get along with this man.
大家都会跟着唱诗班走 Everybody here takes their cue from the choir.
什么？我看到了，那是什么？ I saw that. What was that?
你说什么？ Excuse me?
你们俩刚刚对看了一眼 好像有什么天大的秘密似的 You two just looked at each other like you got a... big secret.
你们都是执事会的成员 You're both on the council.
你们都知道教会的事务 You would both know church business.
她是被开除的吗？ Was she fired?
－你是吗？ －贝蒂 - Were you? - Betty.
上帝不会就这样 把你从我们身边带走 God wouldn't just call you away from us.
但主教会的 But a bishop would.
（科莫汽车旅馆）
感觉有点低级 Feels a little sleazy.
我想那正是我喜欢这里的地方 I think that's what I like about it.
住宿费便宜六块半 It's 6 and a half dollars cheaper.
我也喜欢廉价，感觉很性感 I kind of like being cheap too. It's sexy.
天啊，看起来很可口 My goodness. This looks delicious.
你也是 And so do you.
我让人吮指回味 I'm finger-licking good, I am.
我去上班时 在挡风玻璃上发现几块饼干 I found a few cookies on my windshield at work.
不会是你放的吧？ That wouldn't be your doing, would it?
天啊，我不知道 是雪人吗？小天使？ Well, gee, I don't know. Were they snowmen? Little angels?
圣诞饼干有很多种 There's all kinds of Christmas cookies.
我需要更多细节才能确定 I would need more detail before I could answer for sure.
我能问你一个问题吗？ Can I ask you a question?
贝蒂还好吗？ Is Betty okay?
因为她对牧师的事很激动 Because she got really riled up with that whole minister thing.
贝蒂不喜欢改变 Betty doesn't love change.
她甚至不喜欢突发状况 She doesn't even like contingencies.
我想如果照她的意思来 I think, if she had it her way
一切都会通通一模一样 everything would be exactly how it is today
今天、明天、后天 tomorrow, and the next day.
－她有点吓人 －你还没看到最糟的一面 Well, she got a little scary.
你知道那种… You didn't even see the worst of it.
用毛根做的小天使吧？ You know the little angels that people made
它们怎么了？ - out of pipe cleaner and so forth? - What about them?
这种东西必须丢掉 - This kind of stuff has got to go.
为什么？ - Why?
我们的目标之一 就是改善我们的对外形象 One of our goals will be to spruce up our outward-facing appearance.
自制的装饰品 往往会传达出封闭的感觉 Homemade decorations tend to convey..."parochial,"
不太适合吸引新教友 which is not best for attracting new parishioners.
或许该离开的人是你 Maybe it's you who should go.
她这么说？ She said that?
艾莉莎出生后 她得了严重的产后忧郁症 She got terrible postpartum after Alisa was born
从怀孕期间开始发作 但我觉得病情又复发了 which had started during the pregnancy. But I think it's flaring up again.
我应该带她去吃午餐或喝咖啡之类的 I should take her out to lunch or coffee or something
因为我一直忽略她 because I've been neglecting her all this time
却没有忽略她老公 while I've been not neglecting her husband.
我开玩笑的，艾伦 That was a joke, Allan.
抱歉，不是特别好笑 I'm sorry. It wasn't an especially good one.
我觉得自己很糟糕 I feel like an awful person.
贝蒂是最棒的妻子 Betty's the most...wonderful wife.
她正怀着我的孩子 She's pregnant with my child and...
而我却在一间低级的汽车旅馆 here I am, in a sleazy motel room
床上铺着红丝绒床单 with a red velvet bedspread.
我们不是坏人 You know, we're not bad people.
我们只是必须保持警惕 We just have to stay vigilant.
我们照计划进行 而且绝对不能让 We stick to our plan, and we can never, ever allow
贝蒂或帕特受伤 Betty or Pat to get hurt.
绝对不行 Never, ever.
绝对 Ever.
（后门咖啡馆）
他的老二是我见过形状最完美的 He has the most perfectly shaped penis I have ever seen.
坎迪斯琳恩蒙哥马利 Candace Lynn Montgomery.
我不是说他有善加利用它 I'm not saying he puts it to the best possible use.
我还是不懂 I still don't get it.
我也不确定我懂，因为就像你说的 I'm not sure I do either, because, you know, like you said
他肚子有点大 但… he's a little paunchy, but...
天啊，我不知道 God, I don't know. Maybe it's a...
也许是费洛蒙之类的 pheromone sort of thing?
天晓得，被人注意的感觉很好 I don't know. It's nice to be...
有人爱慕 noticed. You know, just to be adored a little.
帕特不爱慕你吗？ Pat doesn't adore you?
他有 No, he does.
只是用他自己的方式 - Just in his own way. - Well, I have to say
我得承认，有一部分的我有点嫉妒 part of me is a little bit jealous.
我有通奸的想像力，但没有这个胆量 I've got the imagination for adultery, just not the guts.
我不确定这需要的是胆量 I'm not sure it takes guts so much.
应该说是恐惧 It's more like fear.
你得小心一点 You need to be careful.
一切看起来都很正常，很好 Everything looks normal. Fine.
我甚至觉得宝宝很完美 I'd even say perfect, with the baby.
那是什么意思？ What's that supposed to mean?
我们得注意你的高血压和压力 Well, we need to pay attention to your hypertension and stress.
那会影响胎儿 That can affect the fetus.
你可以坐起来了 You can sit up now.
家里还好吗？没事吧？一切都好吗？ So how's everything at home? Everything okay? Things good?
家里一切都跟往常一样 Everything's like home at home.
养着一个孩子，准备再生一个 Raising one child, getting ready to have another.
贝蒂，他只是在关心我们 Betty, he's just looking after us.
有时候感觉好像我做错了什么 Sometimes it feels like I'm not doing right.
我有哪里不对 Not being right.
（明日预报，上帝主宰，圣子闪耀）
（我的心，我为你着迷，宝贝）
（不能分崩离析）
（我为你着迷，宝贝）
（你知道这是真的）
（我为你着迷，宝贝）
这可能是我吃过最好吃的饼干 This may be the best cookie I've ever eaten.
好湿润 It's so moist.
诀窍是早点拿出来 The trick is to take them out early.
我想到只用食谱上写的一半时间来烤 I got the idea to just cook them for only half
结果就成功了 what the recipe calls for, and voila.
这是法语的“完美” That's French for "perfect."
所以是半熟？ So half-baked?
饼干是，我的主意不是 The cookie is, not my idea.
告诉我一些别人不知道的你的小秘密 Tell me something about you that nobody else knows.
我不确定我有 I'm not sure there is anything.
少来了 Oh, come on.
你不想让别人知道 Something that you wouldn't want other people to know
但你想让我知道的事 but you would like me to know.
－我觉得没有 －一定有的 I don't think there is anything.
也许是你特别引以为傲 There must be something about maybe something that...
或觉得丢脸的事 you're especially proud of or ashamed.
好，有一件我引以为傲 Okay. This is something I am proud of but...
但羞于承认的事情 - ashamed to admit I'm proud of.
我已经很爱了 I love that already.
高中时，我是堪萨斯州 In high school I was the Kansas State
小麦竞赛的冠军 Grand Champion in the wheat competition.
－小麦竞赛，对 －小麦竞赛？ - The wheat competition. Yeah. - The wheat competition?
参赛者得用镊子筛选麦秆 You sort through all the stalks with tweezers.
从里面挑出最好的… You pick out the best stuff and...
我看得出来你在憋笑 I can tell you're trying not to giggle.
我没有 I'm not.
鲍伯多尔颁给我银盘 Bob Dole
那是最大奖 presented me with the silver tray, which is the highest award.
你尽管笑吧 You can laugh.
对不起 So sorry!
我最近一直在想一件事 I've been thinking about something a lot
我很难理解 and I'm trying to wrap my head around it.
什么事？ What?
贝蒂有外遇 Betty having an affair.
这很不像她的作风 It just seems so unlike her.
我知道 I know.
那时我正准备去出差六周 I was getting ready to leave on a six-week business trip.
她崩溃了 She kind of went to pieces.
我们住在州立大学附近 We were living near the state college, and, one night
有天晚上她跟一个学生回家 she went home with one of the students.
－你怎么发现的？ －她自己招认的 - How'd you find out? - She confessed.
几乎是马上就认了，我根本没有怀疑 Almost right away. I didn't even suspect anything.
她就突然大哭，脱口而出 She just broke down in tears and... blurted it out.
有部分的我觉得她是因为内疚才坦白 Part of me thinks... she came clean out of guilt.
另一部分的我… 另一部分怎样？ - Another part... - Another part what?
我觉得她可能是想惩罚我去出差 I think maybe she meant to punish me for traveling.
她之所以告诉我 And the reason she told me.
是为了控制我而故意这么做 It was calculated to control my behavior.
你一定很受伤 That must've hurt you a lot.
没错，但是… It did.
我还有一个问题要问你，这很重要 I have another question for you, and it's kind of important.
好 Okay.
你喜欢云霄飞车吗？ Do you like roller coasters?
天啊… Oh, my God! Oh, my God!
好可爱 It's so cute. Will you look at that?
－你们看看 －太可爱了 That is so darling!
谢谢你，坎迪，这太可爱了 Thank you so much, Candy. It's precious.
如果你不喜欢这个颜色，随时可以换 You can always exchange if you don't like the color.
不，我很喜欢，真的 What? No. I love it. I love it.
我爱死了 - My heart.
看起来好可爱 - It looks so cute.
我等不及要见她了 I cannot wait to meet her.
好… - Okay. All right.
下一个是雪莉送的 - Okay. Next one's from Sherry.
来了，谢谢你。 Here we go, thank you.
天啊… Oh God! Oh God!
“真神是人千古保障” "Oh, God.
我们在过去的年代里的帮助。 Our help in ages past.
“是人将来希望” Our hope for years to come."
唱诗班唱着这些词 The choir sings those words.
你们都唱着这些词 All of you... sing those words.
但这是什么意思呢？让我们好好想想 But what do they mean? Let us think about that.
上帝帮助我们… Well, God has helped us
帕特给的 - From Pat. - and those before us
还有我们世世代代的先人 for ages past.
祂是我们的希望，不是吗？ And He is our hope, is He not?
上帝，祂是我们的…我们的希望 God, He's our... our hope.
我们美好又永恒的… Our wonderful and eternal...
总之，后面的词是这样的 Anyway, it continues.
“是人居所抵御风暴”… Our shelter from the stormy blast.
我没有预期他多好，但也没那么糟 I didn't expect him to be good, just not that terrible.
贝蒂想离开教会 Betty wants to leave the church.
什么？ What?
她就是那么讨厌他 She's that put off.
然后呢？回怀利吗？ What, and do what? Just go back to Wylie?
我不知道 I don't know.
就好像她把世界上所有错误 都推到他身上 It's like she's channeling
让他成为代罪羔羊 everything wrong with the world and just making him to blame.
对了，越接近生产日 我得尽量待在离家近的地方 Listen, as we get closer to the day, I'll have to stay close to home more.
我可不希望她开始分娩时 我人却在这里 The last thing I want is to be here when she goes into labor.
所以接下来几周先停一停 So just for the next few weeks...
当然 Of course.
如果她真的要生了却找不到我 You know, if she did go into labor and she couldn't get a hold of me
她会打给你 she'd call you.
我会马上赶过去 What? And I would be there in a flash.
我知道你会，她也知道 I know you would. She knows it.
因为你是个有义气的朋友 Because you're a good friend.
你还好吗？ You okay?
我陷得太深了 I'm getting in too deep.
什么意思？ What do you mean?
我不想爱上你 I don't want to fall in love with you.
如果我们太过火 我不想面对那样的自己 I don't... wanna have to deal with myself if we go too far.
我只是…我太常想着你了 It's just I think about you too much.
你不会太常想着我吗？ You don't find yourself thinking...too much about me?
我无时无刻都在想你 Well, I think about you all the time.
我们有点太认真了 It's getting too serious.
我们不会让它发生的，好吗？ Well...we just won't let it.Okay?
孩子们，吃晚餐了 Kids! Dinner!
妈妈咪呀，好辣的肉丸 Mamma mia! That's a spicy meatball-a!
亲爱的，麻烦你去叫你姊妹 Sweetie, can you please go find your sister
告诉她我们要吃饭了 and tell her we're about to eat?
妈妈咪呀 Mamma mia!
那孩子电视看太多了 That boy watches too much television.
帕特，我们不是说过 不要在餐桌上清口水吗？ Hey, Pat! What did we say about spit valves at the dinner table?
珍妮、伊恩 Hey, Jenny! Ian!
动作快 Come on, let's go!
我有跟你说过 Hey, did I tell you
戈尔家在考虑离开教会吗？ that the Gores were thinking about leaving the church?
什么？为什么？ What? Why?
贝蒂受不了新牧师 Betty cannot stand the new minister.
老实说，我觉得她不太公平 And, honestly, I don't think she's being very fair.
不是每个人都能像贾姬一样 亲切又温暖 Not everyone can be as earthy and warm as Jackie.
他确实跟我说过不能再用布偶了 Well, he did tell me no more puppets.
你说什么？ Excuse me?
他禁止这么做 Put the kibosh on it.
他说儿童团契不能再用布偶 He said no more puppets during children's sermons.
我知道 I know.
我从一开始就告诉你这个人冷酷无情 I've been telling you from the start, the man is cold and unfeeling.
而且他把他太太当成财产 你有发现吗？ And he treats his wife like property.
－好… - Have y'all noticed that? - All right, all right.
－你为什么一直帮他说话，坎迪？ Why do you keep defending him, Candy?
因为老实说我答应过贾姬 Because I promised Jackie I would, truth be told.
他有时会对我们嗤之以鼻 And the way he snorts at us sometimes.
这个我们不能怪他 That we can't hold against him.
据说他小时候得过鼻窦癌 He evidently had sinus cancer as a child.
什么？ What?
我只希望贾姬回来 I just want Jackie back.
我们都希望，亲爱的，我们都是 We all do, honey. We all do. We all do.
抱歉，我有点迟到 Sorry, I'm a little late.
可以开始了吗？ Shall we get started?
先从礼拜开始 - Let's start with the services.
什么？ - Excuse me?
礼拜很无聊 - They're boring.
贝蒂 - Betty.
而且冷酷 And cold!
还有你为什么要禁用帕特的布偶？ And why? Why would you ban Pat's puppets?
我没有禁用 I did not ban them.
我只是说不要再用彼得兔当耶稣 I just said no more Peter Rabbit as Jesus.
有点自己的创意或许是好事 A little spontaneity might be a good thing.
有时候我觉得你误以为 这是个社交俱乐部 Sometimes, I think you mistake this for a social club.
－这是教会，贝蒂 －不一定要这么无聊 This is a church, Betty.Doesn't have to be a dull one.
贝蒂，过渡期确实需要一些耐心 Betty.Transitions do call for some patience.
我不是病人，唐恩 I'm not a patient, Don.
请别把我当成病人 Please don't treat me as one.
她是怎么了？ What is going on with her?
是怀孕的压力 It's the stress from the pregnancy.
她变得有点像琼克劳馥 Well, she got a little Joan Crawford.
等她生完孩子 Once she has the baby
就会恢复光明，她就没事了 the light will come back on, and she'll be okay.
艾伦…算了 Allan... no, never mind.
－什么？ －只是我之前说过 - What? - It's just what I said before. I...
我不知道我能否承受我对你的感觉 I don't know if I can handle the way I'm feeling about you.
我知道我们说过 坠入爱河是违反规定的 And I know that we said that...that falling in love was against the rules
但事实就是如此，我爱上你了 but that's what's happening.I'm falling in love with you.
我为自己感到害怕，我也担心帕特 And I get scared for me, and I worry about Pat.
这对他来说会是很大的打击 I mean, this would be too hard on him.
我不想失去我们的友谊 And...I don't want to lose our friendship.
我只是不希望有人受伤 I just don't want anybody to get hurt.
我和你一样不希望事情失控，坎迪 I don't want this to get out of hand any more than you do, Candy.
但老实说，你和我的关系… But, honestly...you and me...
在某种程度上帮助了我和贝蒂 it's helped me and Betty somehow.
怎么说？ - How so?
我觉得… - I just feel...
开心多了 better.
我想是因为我有了你 I think it's because I have you.
我们说过，如果我们动了真感情 We said that if we started to get too emotionally involved
那就结束了 that it... it's over.
那是我们的第一条规则 That was our first rule.
（一号诊疗室）
我看到头了 I can see the head.
你们有个很漂亮的女儿 You have a beautiful girl.
她百分之百完美 She's 100% perfect.
（１９７９年７月）
好，轮到我了，轮到我了 Okay, my turn.
她好可爱 She is so precious. I just...
我说不出话来了 - I can't speak.
谢谢 - Thank you.
公主 Princess.
亲爱的 我们可能得帮公主找个新玩伴了 Honey, think we might need to get Princess a new playmate.
小狗？ - A puppy?
－我想要一只小狗 －我也是 - I want a puppy!Me too!
她好可爱，我可以抱她吗？ She is so adorable. Can I hold her?
当然可以 Of course.
好的 All right.
天啊 天啊 Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
有什么比新生儿还棒的吗？ Is there anything like a newborn?
应该没有 I don't think so.
贝瑟妮真的是最美丽的小家伙 You know, Bethany really is the most beautiful little thing.
－谢谢 －我也要 - Oh, thank you. - I want one.
贝蒂看起来很好 Hey, Betty seems good.
甚至很开朗 Bright even.
她好多了… Well, she's doing better. She's doing better.
虽然她偶尔还是发作 You know, in spurts. She still has her bouts. But...
但我们几天后要去堪萨斯 we're... we're headed to Kansas in a few days
让贝瑟妮的祖父母见见她 to introduce Bethany to the grandparents.
－所以下周… －好，我明白，没问题 So, you know, next week.Oh, yeah. Got it. Yeah.
但我们下下个周四会回来 But we return that following Thursday.
所以也许周五可以 So maybe... maybe that Friday.
那就周五吧 Friday it is.
我会找保姆 I'll get a sitter.
－太好了 －好 - Great. - Okay.
好吧 Well...
－你们好 －你们来了 - Hi. - Hey! You made it!
你好，宝贝 Hi, baby.
－午安，先生 －见到你真好 - Afternoon, sir. - Good to see you.
很高兴见到你，小家伙 I'm so excited to see you, little one.
你好 Hello!
芥末先生才刚上床睡觉… "Mr. Mustard had just gone to bed when his doorbell rang."
你好 Hey.
它们今晚真的很大声，对吧？ They are really loud tonight, huh?
对 Yeah.
你有想过它们都跟彼此说什么吗？ Do you ever wonder what they all say to each other?
天晓得，但它们听起来很开心 Lord knows, but they certainly sound chipper.
怎么了？ What?
没事 Nothing.
为什么这样看我？ Why the look?
只是看着你… Just looking at you and...
边看边想 looking and thinking.
想什么？ About what?
有时候我都忘了你有多美 Sometimes I... I forget how pretty you are.
帕特 Pat.
对不起，亲爱的 I'm sorry, honey.
对不起 I'm sorry. I'm just...
我今晚真的很累 just really tired tonight.
别碰我 Don't touch me.
亲爱的 Hey, honey.
你以为我不知道你对我没兴趣了 You think I don't know. That you're not attracted to me anymore?
你不想…你不想碰我了 That you don't wanna touch me... don't wanna touch me?
这不公平 That's not fair.
那不是真的 你想 - That's not true. - You wanna have
讨论公平吗 艾伦？ a discussion about fair, Allan?
你说说看啊 Why don't you start?
她一直说“你不爱我了” She just kept saying, "You don't love me anymore.
“你不爱我了” - You don't love me anymore."
但你有安抚她吧？ - Well, you did reassure her, right?
有 Yes.
但她深信我对她没兴趣 But she's convinced that I'm not attracted to her
因为她生完孩子后变胖了 because she's fat after having a baby.
你对她有兴趣吗？ Are you attracted to her?
当然 Of course.
我只是累坏了 I was just spent.
我没有精力，因为我整天和你在一起 My tank was empty because I'd been with you all day.
问题是她从来没有主动过 The thing is, she never initiates.
从贝瑟妮出生前，我们就没上过床了 We haven't had sex since...before Bethany was born, so for her to make a move
所以她主动出击却被拒绝，实在是… and to be rebuffed just...
你打算怎么办？ What are you gonna do?
坎迪，我觉得我们应该分手 Candy, I think we should end it.
我们分手？ Us, end it?
我们？不，什么？ Us? No. What?
不 No!
－好吧 －不，现在是你不公平 - Okay. - No, but now you're being unfair.
－够了，不要… －好 - It's not... Do not... - I'm not... Okay, shh.
不，不准嘘我 No! Hey! Do not "shh" me!
你不能这样压抑别人和他们的情绪 You cannot just squelch another person and their emotions.
永远不准嘘我 Do not "shh" me ever.
我在伤害贝蒂 I'm hurting Betty, Candy.
坎迪，这段婚外情影响到我的婚姻了 This affair is affecting my marriage now.
你才无法跟贝蒂上床一次 You can't perform with Betty one time
就突然想分手？ and, suddenly... you wanna end it?
我不是说我们一定要分手 I'm not saying that we should definitely end it.
－我只是… －不然你是什么意思？ Then what are you saying?
只是我们应该考虑一下 Just that we should think about it.
我不想伤害她或帕特 I don't wanna hurt her or Pat.
不，因为他是唱诗班里最会唱歌的人 No. Well, because he's just the best singer in the choir.
我们变得太亲近了 We've become too close.
我怕自己… And I'm afraid that I...
可能不再爱她了 might not love her anymore.
我不能让那种事发生 And I can't let that happen.
我们都在利用彼此 填补自己婚姻的缺口 We've both been using each other to fill the gaps in our marriages
这样是不对的，对吧？ and that's not right.Right?
我们就放慢脚步吧 Let's just slow it down some.
感谢各位今天莅临 Thank you all for being here today
我们美丽新圣所的破土典礼 for the groundbreaking of our wonderful new sanctuary.
我很荣幸负责剪彩 Now, it's my honor to cut this ribbon.
（１９７９年９月）
你好？ - Hello?
你好 - Hey.
你好，陌生人 Hey, stranger.
你好吗？ - How you doing?
我很好 - Yeah, I'm good.
我很好，你呢？ I'm good. Yeah. You?
还不错 Pretty good.
只是错过了几顿特别的午餐 Except for missing a few of those special lunches.
是啊，我也是 Yeah. Me too.
贝蒂还好吗？ How's Betty?
其实不太好 You know. Not too good, actually.
打从那晚我没有回应她之后 After that night when I didn't respond
她就陷入低潮，一直走不出来 she sort of went into a hole and hasn't come out of it.
那你还好吗？ So how are you doing?
还好。还好。 Okay. Okay.
我换了新工作 I'm taking a new job.
ＥＣＳ电信公司 ECS Telecommunication.
我以为你喜欢 在洛克威尔国际公司工作 I thought that you liked working at Rockwell.
对，只是在那间公司 如果我想升迁的话 Yeah. It's just if I want to advance at the company
就得常常出差 that would mean more travel,
贝蒂不能接受 which you know, isn't an option for Betty.
没错 Nope.
我们何不一起吃午餐，当面聊聊？ Why don't we get lunch and talk face-to-face?
我不是说我想跟你分手，坎迪 我不想 I'm not saying I want us to end, Candy.
但我需要… I don't. But I need...
我需要我和贝蒂的关系变得更好 I need for me and Betty to get better.
更稳固 Stronger.
你说过跟我在一起有帮助 You said that being with me helped.
对我有帮助，没错，但帮不了我跟她 Helped me, yes. But not me and her.
当然更帮不了她 Certainly not her.
她感觉有好一点吗？ Is she feeling any better?
她现在想去参加夫妇恳谈会 She wants to go to Marriage Encounter now.
真的吗？ Really?
我觉得这对我们会有好处 I think it'd do us some good.
下一场是在十月 The next one is in October.
－怎么了？ －夫妇恳谈会将是我们的句点 What? Marriage Encounter will be the end of us.
我们就再看看情况吧 Let's just see what happens.
坎迪，我们再看看情况 Candy, let's just see what happens.
我真的很不想现在问你这个 I really hate to ask you this right now.
但活动会在周末举行 But... it takes place over a weekend
贝蒂跟我想问问 and Betty was wondering, as was I, if you and Pat
你跟帕特能不能帮忙带孩子 could possibly take the kids.
艾莉莎爱你 Alisa loves you
贝蒂不会把贝瑟妮托付给别人 And Betty won't trust anyone else with Bethany.
这会… It would just... it would be...
当然 Sure.
我很乐意 I'd be glad to.
你从没提过会有城堡 You never mentioned a castle.
我不知道，亲爱的 I did not know, honey.
我真的不知道会这样 Oh, I really don't know about this.
希望至少食物是好吃的 Well, let's hope the food's good at least.
配偶应该时时刻刻陪伴在彼此身旁 Spouses are expected to be at each other's sides at all times.
我应该补充，陪伴在自己的配偶身旁 I should add at the side of your own spouse.
有时候我们会有来自加州的夫妻 Sometimes we get couples from California
所以我总是会特别强调 so I always make sure.
房间里不准开电视 Televisions are not to be turned on in the rooms.
一下下都不行 Not even a little.
不准打电话，不准看报纸 No phones, no newspapers.
没有任何事物能阻挡夫妻互相沟通 Nothing to get in the way of couples communicating
内心的感受 about their feelings.
我要趁这个机会 I will take the opportunity right now
向各位提出夫妇恳谈会的第一个问题 to propose your first Marriage Encounter question
请各位在你们的 夫妇恳谈会笔记本中努力回答 which you will each endeavor to answer in your individual Marriage Encounter notebooks.
笔记本在你们的房间里 You'll find these in your room.
问题如下 The question is as follows.
“我这周末为什么来这里？” Why did I come here this weekend,
以及“我希望得到什么？” and what do I hope to gain?
上面用大大的粗体字写着 It says, in very bold letters...
写完之后我们要交换笔记本并接吻 that, once we finish, we're to exchange notebooks with a kiss.
然后看对方的答案，讨论我们的感受 Then read each other's answers and discuss how it makes us feel.
你很难受，对吧？ It's killing you, isn't it?
我为他们高兴，我为艾伦高兴 I'm happy for them. I'm glad for Allan.
你很难受 It's killing you.
他跟她在饭店房间里让我很不舒服 Well, it bugs me that he's in some hotel room with her
跟她卿卿我我 getting all gooey with her.
我把他变成更好的情人 You know, I made him a better lover.
他本来连舌吻都不会，是我训练他的 He didn't even know how to French kiss. I practically trained him.
似乎坏脾气贝蒂得到所有好处 And it seems like Bad Mood Betty gets all the benefit
而我却得帮她带孩子 while I'm babysitting her kids.
－不是吧？ －是你说… - Really? - You're the one who said
他是不会让人坠入爱河的 he was fall-in-love-proof.
我有个主意，我们晚上一起出去吧？ I got an idea. Why don't we go out tonight?
有间新夜店刚开幕 大家都说那里很好玩 There's a new club, just opened up and everybody's saying how fun it is.
不行，我得带孩子 I have to babysit the kids.
拜托，让帕特去带吧 Oh, come on. Pat can watch them.
就几个小时，姊妹淘之夜 Couple of hours, girls' night out.
会很好玩的 It'll be fun.
有时候通往幸福的最佳途径 就是假装幸福 You know, sometimes the best path to happiness is just to feign it.
屈服于幸福的假象 Just to give in to the illusion of it.
我以为我对艾伦就是这样 Well, I thought that's what I was doing with Allan.
连舌吻都不会的家伙，我们去定了 Didn't even know how to French kiss. We're going.
“我也很难谈论性” "It's hard for me to talk about sex too.
“有时候很难达到 享受性爱所需要的那种” Sometimes it's so hard to feel calm and quiet
“平静安宁的心态” as you need to be to enjoy sex.
“我想放松 对我来说是最困难的部分” I guess the relaxation part is the hardest part for me.
“所以在瑞士时喝一点酒 或很多酒会有帮助” That's why, in Switzerland a little, or a lot, of wine helped.
“这让我放松 让我能真正自由地享受它” It relaxed me so I could really be free to enjoy it all.
“如果我需要酒 才能让性爱更愉悦的话” Does this mean I'm not comfortable with sex
“这是否表示 我对性爱感到不自在？” if I need wine to make love more pleasant?
“我不知道” I don't know."
那让你有什么感觉？ How does that make you feel?
我更加意识到你的不安全感 Well, I feel... more aware with your insecurities.
我不确定意识是一种感觉 I'm not sure that awareness is a feeling.
感觉的定义没有规则 There's no rule about what constitutes a feeling.
有，他们给我们的笔记本里有写 Yes, it's in those workbooks that they gave us.
重点不是你怎么想 It's not about what you think.
而是你的情绪反应 It's about how you emotionally respond.
意识到我对性爱的不安全感 不是一种感觉 Being aware of my insecurity over sex is not a feeling.
我们不该评断彼此的反应 上面是这样写的 We're not supposed to judge each other's reactions. - It says that. - I've said several things
我针对性爱说了好多 specifically about sex.
而你完全没有回应 And you haven't really responded. At all.
我想我知道原因，艾伦 And I think I know... why, Allan.
你不想要我 You don't desire me.
－那不是真的 －不，你从不碰我，你… - That is not true. - No, you never touch me, and you...
因为你发出“别碰我”的讯息 Because you send the message, "Don't touch me."
这次夫妇恳谈会的… The core principle...
核心原则就是诚实 of this Encounter is honesty.
艾伦，你对我有性趣吗？ Are you sexually attracted to me, Allan?
我跟你保证我有 I promise you I am.
我有 I am.
听着 Hey.
怎么了？ What?
我一直很担心和害怕你不想要我 I've been so worried and scared that you don't want me.
你对我没有欲望 也许你甚至不再爱我了 That you don't desire me. That maybe you don't even...love me anymore.
那不是真的，我爱你，真的 Well, that's not true. I do. I love you.
贝蒂，我想要你 Betty, I desire you.
我们在这里正是因为我想要你 We're here because I desire you.
因为我很想你 Because I miss you.
我想做 I'd like to fornicate.
我想 I'd like to.
领受圣体 Body of Christ, given for you.
我意识到我的感觉 并不是“我不喜欢你” I realized that what I was feeling was not "I don't like you"
而是我对你不会感到兴奋 but more like "I don't feel excited about you
因为我太习惯现状了 because I'm too used to the way things are."
领受圣体 Body of Christ, given for you.
我想分享更多你的感受 I want to share a lot more of your feelings
我也想跟你分享我的感受 and I want to be able to share mine with you.
一想到你会更常不在家 我就会恐惧地想起那段时光 When I think of your being gone more, I remember those times with dread.
领受圣血 Blood of Christ, shed for you.
－那种孤独 －领受圣血 The aloneness. Blood of Christ, shed for you.
我从不担心自己独自在家是否安全 I never really felt fear for my safety at home alone
但孤独一人 but the feeling of being alone...
是最糟糕的感觉 is the worst possible one to have.
仿佛身在黑暗的隧道里 It's like you're in a dark tunnel
离光明还有很长一段路 and you've got a long ways to go to the light.
要等你安全回到家，才会重现光明 The light isn't there till you're home again safe and sound.
有时你离开的时间让隧道变得很长 And sometimes the times you were gone made the tunnel very long.
以上帝之名 我艾伦，愿意娶你贝蒂为妻 In the name of God, I, Allan, take you, Betty, to be my wife.
从今以后，白头偕老 To have and to hold from this day forward.
无论顺境、逆境，富有或贫穷 For better or worse, richer or poorer.
我必爱护并珍惜你 To love and to cherish.
至死不渝 Until we are parted by death.
这是我神圣的誓言 This is my solemn vow.
以主耶稣基督赋予我的权力 By the power vested in me by Jesus Christ, our Lord
我衷心感到荣幸 it is my sincere pleasure
能再次宣布你们结为夫妻 to repronounce you both as man and wife.
－大家好 －你们好 - Hi! - Hey!
你们好 Hey.
你好 Hi!
－亲爱的，玩得开心吗？ －开心 - Hey, sweetie. You have fun? - Hi.
－还好吗？ －对 - Yeah. Yeah. - You did?
－你好 －怎么样？ - Hey. Great. - How was it?
－很棒 －你好 - Pat, thanks again. - Hey, Allan!
当然，随时欢迎 Yeah, of course. Anytime.
太好了 Hey.Well, that...
我的小天使 There's my little angel!
她怎么样？ How'd she do?
她很完美，就像小天使一样 Oh, she was perfect, like little angels are.
你好 Hi.Here you go.
谢谢 Thank you.
真的很谢谢你照顾她们 Thank you so much for taking them.
我感激不尽 I am beyond grateful.
你在开玩笑吗？我很喜欢她们来 Oh, are you kidding me? I love having them.
尤其是艾莉莎来的时候 珍妮的脾气就会比较好 Especially since Jenny is sweeter when Alisa comes over.
我好想你，我的小女儿 I missed you, my little girl.
怎么样？ So how was it?
太棒了 It was amazing.
是喔 - Yeah?
真的很棒 It was really great.
太好了 Great.
我本来很怀疑，真的 I was skeptical. I really was.
但老实说，真的是太赞了 But, honest to God, it was the best thing.
你和帕特应该考虑一下 You and Pat, you should... you should think about it.
－我不是说你们需要 －可以走了，亲爱的 - Not that you need it or anything. - All right. All set, honey.
好，我来了，再次感谢你们 All right. Here I come.- Thank you again so much.
随时欢迎… - Anytime.Anytime.
小心， Careful.
可以吗？ -你好 - Got it? - Hey.
嘿 Hey.
贝蒂说还不错？ So it was good, Betty says.
比我想像中好太多了 Better than I could've imagined.
很高兴听到你那么说 I'm glad to hear it.
－我再打电话给你 －好 - I'll call you. - Yep.
再见 再见 Bye!
好 - All right.
这样应该可以了 That should do it.
再见 - Bye.
－再见 －再次谢谢你们 - Bye. - Thanks again, guys.
－再见 －好 - Bye, Jenny. - Yeah.
－谢谢你 －再见 - Thank you for... - Bye-bye!
－再见 －再见 - Bye! - Bye, guys.
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